The title. To sum the whole situation up, when first flirting with a girl I'm enjoying the thrill of the whole process of gaming her, witty banters, getting IOI, making progress and kino etc. And I carry this excitement in the first date as well. However after a successful first date that ends on a good note and clearly establishes her feelings and joy of being with me, I lose all interest and excitement after that day. No motivation to date, no motivation for making witty banter (or talking at all), no motivation to interest, no creative negs. I become dull and bored and cold, and I even lose my creativity and gaming skills. This may sound odd to most of you but I'm sure there are some who experienced similar things. My question is to ask for your tips on what'd cause this lack of motivation in me when I haven't even gotten the pussy (Maybe it's the wrongful subconscious thought that after a successful first date the sex will eventually be guaranteed in the future) and your advices on how to keep that excitement and enjoyment and motivation.