With one girl I’ve been seeing when it comes to making plans I always have to lead. She is always more than interested and hasn’t iced me out, but at this point I sort of expect girls to pull a bit more in that department. I’m currently treating it as a mindfuck protocol she’s running, keep me on edge to see how I react to it.

We’ll fuck like 4 times in a row when together then I don’t text her for a while and she’ll usually hit me up with something just to make convo. I close the conversations down quick every time because she can talk to her orbiters and girlfriends. My view is if a girl wants more from me = request a promotion + duration - drama.

This doesn’t mean I ALWAYS be making plans with her though. Is there a way I can address this with her? I get her hitting me up is showing interest and an invitation to escalate, but after months it’s hard to read. Especially because if I just hung out with you a day or two before, I’m not going to jump to make new plans. Bitches and their games get old mane.