Hey. I found trp a coupple of months ago right before breaking up with my then current gf. I have been reading up on a lot of the sidebar material and posts in general. Working on intergrating it into my life and self improvement. So far it's been going really good except this one thing.

I started plating a chick recently and realized something. I dont find great difficult in ceasing to see someone that Im somewhat emotionally invested in. Lets say it bothered me a few percentages depending on how invested I am/was. My problem is the fact that the women probably doesn't care at all. It's like they feel so safe and reliant on the fact that they can just go out and pick someone new up without having to lift a finger. Even though its the truth it angers me so much. I am aware of abundance mentallity and have been tipsed to imagine " if she would dump you she would already have another dude ready". It doesn't really do it for me cause I wouldnt give a shit either way if there was a new dude or not. It's just how they probably dont give a shit about me in the first place.

I have been reading that I should invest less in people but the investment in my current plate equals to the investment I have for the toilet paper I wipe my ass with. But the thought of us continuing to an potential ltr just to throw it away and her not giving a shit pisses me off too much. How would you suggest me going forward for this not to occupy my mind and annoying me when it comes to women?