I know that when women find you very attractive, they will do anything to indicate it, theyll do anything to spend time with you, etc.

However i might have spotted something. Do women tend to hide their interest behind showing disinterest? Or could there be a possibility of them being scared of / intimidated by me? ( I mean that in the poaitive way, them thinking im out of their league or something of that sort).

Now, i dont mean or consider myself a living god or an exemplar of perfection by any means. But throughout my life ive improved my self alot ( im grounded, confident, i barely act on emotion, i know what i want in life, i dont let anyone shit on my head) could that affect what energy i put out?

How often do girls hide their interest by showing disintrest, or how do i spot that they might be scared of showing interest.

(Consider a college bar night scene) Some girls might not show heavy IOIs but after i approach them i could literally see them light up, then see them engaging in a conversation with me later during the night.

Then another night they might seem distant but then the same scenario occurs.

Or when you later see them on campus they might not say hi at first etc. Might they be intimidated ( in the good way).

I found that i used to be in that position sometimes. When i really fancied a particular girl, i was sort of intimidated to engage in conversation, pretended not to see her, found hard to keep a conversation etc.

This ofcourse doesnt happen with every girl i meet or know, its just an unusual occurance that i sometimes stumble upon.

Or am i retarded by thinking that heavy iois and girls jumping on me should be considered as a baseline for attrction?

Tldr: is there a possibility of girls being intimidated by me (in the positive way) or am i just delusional and nobody really likes me.