basically I matched with some chick on tinder and something about my job came up and she asked where i work. i work at big4 business company and with all i see on the news, im paranoid that if something goes sour, she'll get me fired or something (that's what always happens these days). Am i being too paranoid? Should I just tell her where I work or lie?

On another note, we agreed to hang out at my place. Where can I look for some info on what I should do to escalate at home? im super new to game so I'm not sure how to escalate and the timing for the escalation