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Do relationships work if women make more than the guy?

RangerZ3 · 2019-03-27T09:14:18+00:00

In an LTR or marriage. Would this cause women to branch swing if they knew they made more than you?...

RangerZ3

March 27, 2019

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Title	Do relationships work if women make more than the guy?
Author	RangerZ3
Upvotes	2
Comments	23
Date	March 27, 2019 9:14 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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[–]devastatedgirl 1 points 7 years ago [recovered] (11 children) | Copy Link

[–]thrwy754790 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

That's the reason why many women fall for bums with nothing

No normal woman falls for a homeless person, you nincompoop.

You cannot argue with money. You need it to stay alive. Is it everything? No. Is it incredibly important? Fuck yes.

If she has the option between 2 guys, where one guy makes a decent income, and the other guy's fucking homeless, everything else being equal, she will pick the guy with the money. Every time.

If you can stay alive long enough, you can delude yourself into being happy living in poverty, but that's exactly what it is: delusion.

Read this article by Christian H. Cooper, a guy who made it out of poverty, and into finance, and see how badly it fucked him up. It will scare you straight, and it should.

Despite the fact that he's making $700k now, he still wants to kill himself because the extreme circumstances of his upbringing ruined him psychologically, and permanently destroyed him down to the biological level. So severe are the effects that they could be carried forward several generations.

Never perpetuate this myth of the happy homeless person. There is absolutely nothing good about poverty.

[–]devastatedgirl 1 points 7 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]thrwy754790 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Does money grow on trees? No. There were times that we didnt have money at all .

I'm sorry to break your heart but we don't live in those times. And even then, you'd have to hunt. A better hunter would have ample food for his family or tribe, and clothing and shelter to protect from the environment. To stay alive, resources were still required.

25-30 year old guy that lives with his mom

Just because someone else is covering his expenses doesn't mean he doesn't need money.

Possible? It happens all the time , in fact losers get laid

The question—that is, if you can read—is asking about relationships. Obviously, you're not going to compare financial statements when you're going for a ONS, unless you both happen to be into that.

If you have a girlfriend and tell her that you lost your job she wont say "Ok I'm out of here"

You're right. She won't leave right away, but you can be damn sure the countdown has started.

your insecurities will blossom and they will drive her away

It's not just your insecurities that could drive her away. It's the fact that you can't fucking pay for food or rent that will drive her—or more likely, you—away, for fuck's sake.

if the women thinks you are superior to her in other ways she will make damn sure to give you money as well in order to stay

This only works on women who are idiots with low self-esteem, low quality garbage. You try this on a woman who works a decent job and lives on her own, she'll have you on the street after 1 day.

[–]devastatedgirl 1 points 7 years ago* [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]thrwy754790 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I know what you mean.

Dude, admittedly, you shouldn't tie your self-worth to your wallet. The fact that you're human, in and of itself, means you have worth, and deserve respect. I also don't think that people who make a lot more money have greater self-worth. Further, there's no denying that a man with a shit personality is definitely going to bore or scare a woman away.

However, there is also a physiological aspect tied to feeling good and having positive emotions. You're going to feel pretty shitty if you haven't eaten in a week, you have no place to live and it's -20C outside.

Point is, there is a basic level of needs that must be met so you can feel normal. Do you need a huge income to meet those needs? Probably not.

There is also an age component. When you're young, you feel invulnerable. Getting and being old is a privilege because it is expensive. You won't get to be too old unless you have at least some money coming in, or accumulated some wealth during your peak earning years.

When it comes to a relationship with a woman, long-term, it becomes very difficult if there is a large difference in lifestyles. I'm not talking about something small, like a $10k difference in incomes. I'm talking about Scarlett Johansson and a school janitor type of difference. It can be cute for a while, but there's very little chance it will work out long-term. It's not realistic.

[–]devastatedgirl 1 points 7 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link

I agree with everything, but I want to point that this is the way things should work. The way things actually work is that women want to fuck everyfucking body making those decisions randomly and based on their emotional state. So it doesnt matter if you are in a relationship and have her chained or being the highest value guy on earth with beta qualities as well . She will get bored eventually and will want another guy , and then drop the other guy and find another one . She would do this forever if she could but past an age , men dont like her anymore so she settles . BUT , on any given chance she will cheat . Funny thing is , your ability to evoke emotions in her diminishes each time you see each other . You cannot have a relationship on these terms , thats why they dont function . So yeah assuming you put scarlett johansson in a school environment with only one male(that being the janitor) and the other male her husband she will branch swing to the janitor one day .

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