I don't know why but everytime I jack off before going to talk to girls, or going to the club I lose all desire. It's like i cant push myself to talk to them. Its like I have no drive to talk to them and I feel content, I get the mindset that its not a big deal and Im not as attracted to girls.

I'm really trying to push myself to talk to girls and get a girfriend. Can any of you guys relate to this feeling? I feel like I'm the only one. Help a brotha out