For those who are unfamiliar with this, it's basically one of the main things BPD girls do to trap men in. It's basically all or nothing mixed signals. The main way that it's done is that the bpd girl will pick out all your flaws (and sometimes make flaws up that aren't there but will convince you that they are) and severely shame you for it, then when she senses you pushing her away and planning your exit, she will switch to being a perfect submissive little girl who loves you unconditionally (BPDs have a high capacity for empathy, so they will almost always sense it). BPDs who manipulate consciously tend to do this in every aspect of their game.

I was wondering if any RPers in here know if this would work too on other girls? I just got out of an LTR and I'm in the process of trying it out right now with more normal girls, but basically what I'm doing is giving a good amount of attention to my targets and then when our tension is peaking or if they do something I don't approve of, I completely withdraw by ignoring them for a few weeks or until they come back to me. I really have no way of knowing just yet since it's too soon so I want to know you're experiences with doing all or nothing mixed signals