Been dating this HB 8/9 a for a few weeks, and she seems really into me. I picked up hints along the way that she's seeing other people, as I am. It was indirectly acknowledged between us and I'm fine keeping it that way.

We threw down on the third date and I wasn't able to perform as I normally could because of nerves, so I made up for it in other ways during that session to make sure she got off plenty. Still, I felt that my SMV got hit after that, even though she still sent me texts afterward that demonstrated high IOI. She asked when we could meet up again, and I left plans tentative with her as I was busy for a few days, and eventually rescheduled with her—BUT—I did this with consideration and told her about it as soon as I found out, so she can change plans if needed.

Then, a few days later I texted to see what time she could meet me, and she then pulled the same tentative move on me, ultimately cancelling just before we were supposed to meet.

Now that pissed me off. It wasn't what she did, so much as how she went about doing it that gave me the less than subtle hint that she's either losing her interest in me fast, or busy fucking somebody else for the time being. She sounded different (detached) in her latest texts, which also gave me the impression that she's either done, or may eventually touch base later on to pull a LJBF on me.

I'm ready to move on if I need to, but also don't want to give her the satisfaction of reassuring her hamster that she did nothing wrong in this scenario by complying to her cancellation.

Should I soft next her, and see if she responds, or hard next her and move onto my other plates? Would this warrant that?