Does validating girls during an approach work for lower value girls?

Drewsef916 · 2021-04-13T17:11:02+00:00

it just depends on the girl man. Some ugly girls have massive ego's still. That's why regardless of looks starting indirect is usually risk-free cus your just a social stranger there's no implication of trying to lay her

michael1962-01 · 2021-04-13T17:19:17+00:00

The opening line is beta as hell.

(Validation for her) followed (insecure option on me) to have (yes please come....)

Alpha

"I'm (name). Let's have a coffee. "

"HI. I'm (name). Seen this smile before. Lets have some fun"

Boldness wins

BetteMale · 2021-04-13T19:49:12+00:00

Bad idea, as a higher SMV guy, you should not be validating and acting as if she is hot shit. Approach them normally, even seeming lukewarm / not so enthusiastic. Let her work to win you over.

partyn3xtd00r6 · 2021-04-13T17:59:32+00:00

Low value chicks ugly chicks fat chicks are all still getting dick brother hate to break it to you. The girls you perceive to be low self esteem really aren’t with the current social media and dating app climate.

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TheDevilPutD · 2021-04-13T18:34:18+00:00

Your opening line doesn't really matter as long as it is direct, meaning set the frame you are the chooser. My attitude is that I am almost doing them a favor by approaching, that it is a privilege that I got off my ass to go talk to them. It sounds like you still don't believe in yourself enough. You should have no doubt whatsoever that by approaching this girl you are making her day and are going to benefit her life.

Halflotus1 · 2021-04-13T18:54:46+00:00

In my experience if I’m clearly much higher SMV than them, the compliments make them suspicious lol.

Almost no good deed toward a woman goes unpunished.

mchnic5 · 2021-04-13T19:57:16+00:00

if you show interest suddenly in low smv girl and you are high smv than her, she will be creeped out

drakehfh · 2021-04-13T20:01:55+00:00

If she gives a lot of eye contact, you don't need to validate her.

Title	Does validating girls during an approach work for lower value girls?
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Date	April 13, 2021 5:03 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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