Hi guys, (Sorry for my english)

I've been lurking for few months.... so finally decided to make me and account. So this happened today

Context: I've been flirting with a coworker for almost 3 weeks, lots of physical contact and stuff, I know i'm not orbiting her, some days i can completlly ignore her and it results in she asking for attention ... however i tried to close the deal today..

me: I get close to her attempt to kiss..

her: Slowly rejects.. (i realize shet gets nervous AF.)

me : I like you.. but I don't like to waste my time... you tell me, right here, right now.

her: (Gets more nervous and blush) well you're so direct, i don't know what to say... may a i text you ?

me: (i had to leave so i made a stupid decision).. "i'll give you 5 mins"

her: (20 mins later in text) "Sorry i didn't answer fast...

her: (regarding to if i'm wasting my time) "I don't know, more or less because i'm dating someone else"

me: "okay"

.....Dead silence.....

I don't know how to proceed the upcoming days, after many IOIs.. i think its a shit test, or she wants me to compete with the other guy...which I'm not willing to do...i mean i'm the fucking prize .

........................EDIT.......................

Thanks for all the advice. I decided to go cold and radical silent. Despite she es a coworker, we are not in the same team so we don't have to talk too much. (also this is my secondary Job, i just have to go 2 times per week)... I'm starting fight feeling the oneitis (any tip?)

Things i learned from this.

  • I could close the deal on second date, BP man inside didn't let me
  • Since second date i became a fucking beta weirdo.
  • Finally, today check what was expected, bitch is suckin' other dick.