Hi there! I've been lurking around TRP for quite a bit now, so I just wanted to ask you guys for some general advice. I should mention that I haven't done much reading on TRP theory, but my own views are pretty similar to what this whole movement promotes. I basically view everything from an evolutionary point of view, and it is obvious that everybody (both men and women) is a survival machine for their genes (as proposed by Dawkins), and that therefore everybody (whether consciously or not) has their own interest in mind. As a consequence I do not trust almost anyone (including guys...just think of that douchebag Chad Thundercock), but I especially do not trust women, since they are necessary for reproduction, but in some form they are also direct competitors for resources.

Ok, so now that I've made it clear what my thoughts are, I move on to my problems. I think I should mention that presently I'm overall a pretty happy person (even though I recognize that life is quite volatile and things could change in a mere second). My main problem is, obviously, about females. I'm a 20 year old Male university student, and I'm still a freakin' virgin, haven't kissed a girl...and overall in that respect, it's not going very good. I wouldn't say that I'm anti-social since I got some very good friends (all guys), and I occasionally go out with them (though not very much since I live at home and commute to school...it's a good financial decision, but maybe not a good social one), but I do not have any female friends. I rarely interact with females, and I absolutely never ever chase them. I don't chase them because it bothers me that I have to do all the approaching (and they don't have to do shit), but also because I know that most women aren't genuine (in the sense that they treat people differently depending on how they view them, e.g. treat a good looking guy really well, but totally disregard a bad looking one). I can be quite a dick to chicks (in the few interactions that I have) who I think might be trying to extract a favor or anything from me, so a lot of them probably end up disliking me. In terms of personality, I'd say that I'm pretty shy, but my true personality isn't that of a 'nice guy' (in the sense that I actively try to understand if someone is trying to take advantage of me, even though I slip sometimes).

I work out like 3 times a week (I lift, but I don't eat enough to get big..I do have a defined body) and eat paleo, so I don't really have any body problems or anything like that. I'd say I'm average looking, definitely not good looking, if that matters..

Anyways, this whole situation is a problem for me because someday I want to have kids, start a family (like in 10 years), and I feel it might be important to have some experience with girls to be able find one in the future (I'm not sure about the whole marriage thing, but I do want kids). I honestly do not care too much about 'slaying' hoes all the time (even though it would be nice every now and then I suppose). So considering my objectives, what should I do? or better, what would you do if you were in my position? Should I become actively involved with women or something? and where (physical location..club, bar, etc) should I try these changes? Thanks!

EDIT: I'm asking this here because if I ask somewhere else I'll probably get some bull shit advice about 'being yourself and things will work out on their own' or something like that.