It’s been about a year since I broke up with my oneitis. For about a few months after we broke up we kept in contact but I was honestly wasting my time. Once I realized that, I took time off so I could build myself up and make myself a more ideal man. Fast forward a year since the breakup and I hooked up with a few women, I’m at a new university, and the money is coming in.

During the end of August, I decided to end my monk mode. It was a solid lay (HB9) and I’ve been fairly consistent with it (minor dry spells) for that semester. The problem is I haven’t been having the success that I could be having. I’ve been in a dry spell since November (I fumbled a NYE lay) and I think it’s because I started to put women back on a pedestal. I think I lost my focus and in doing so I started to display scarcity mindset by being too needy and “sloppy” with my game. Another problem is that since I swallowed the Red Pill, I overestimated my game.

How do you get over dry spells? What are somethings I can do to improve on?