I've been in bed with four women so far. I'm only 25 so E.D. shouldn't happen.

I could never get hard for any of them. Two of them performed oral sex on me. One of them was a prostitute, she sucked my cock for almost half an hour, I was still soft. However I felt no physical attraction to her, especially after she undressed(saggy body), altough she looked good with her clothes on. The very first time I was very anxious, so that's probably why nothing happened. Pretty much the same with the rest, minus the oral sex. I've felt little or no physical attraction to them, lots of foreplay, nothing happened.

So yeah, I'm basically still an incel, at 25. I've experienced no PIV sex.

I could have bedded a few more(attractiveness below average), but since these past experiences I didn't even bother, because I knew I couldn't get hard. Probably due to inexperience. I also have no motivation to drill women I find unnatractive.

Some say I have unrealistic standards, and maybe I do. But that's what I could pull for now. I can get my junk hard by myself without issues.

Should I be able to get hard for ANY woman?