Escalating in this situation

MattyAnon · 2018-10-23T14:11:58+00:00

how can I isolate & escalate in a situation like this? "Hey let's go outside" or what? Any advice would be great, thanks.

Establish mutual interest by leading... talking... perhaps touching a little (anywhere) if you can.

Do forwards/backwards so it doesn't feel like pressure. You want her to feel desire, not pressure.

Then escalate with "hey, let's do XX and YY place" as you suggest.

Ricklogical · 2018-10-23T14:56:37+00:00

I guess it depends on the neighborhood. A walk around the block for fresh air would be smart, parks and hikes and taking a drive can also be good.

I get a lot of women wet driving nowhere singing my favorite tunes to them. Then we park and its on.

markinsinz7 · 2018-10-23T17:46:58+00:00

As some1 with a tiny bit of experience in this. -where do u stand in the group hierarchy(most imp)? How close r u to the house owner friend? Do all the guys already have their own chicks? Are you all leaving together right after school? How many girls n guys?

Intergroup dynamics r shit for 1st time lays. Ideally u want her to come alone with u asap somewhere - tell her hey u got to see my friends cool new 'thing'😆 then take her to the bathroom who cares if u lied. Might need ur friends permission. This is all if u play the timing right.

Possiblity 1: firstly at ur friends house he becomes alpha. If he is arrogant or jealous or even just plain more fun than u, that hb9 hypergamy will kick n you ll end up facing an uphill battle. With it being his house all he has to say 'come I want to show u this coolshit in my room'.

2: what about in terms of looks or status - Another alpha in the group has gf maybe doesn't; seeing all the attention on him, he leads the group and what not boom she gets more attracted to him. Another battle.

3: if ur the leader...well nothing to worry except for that guy who may end up hitting on her too much.

Point being she is an hb9 then these girls want the best in that CONTEXT. When on the bus u excited her most so u were 'alpha'.

PS: I hate analyzing things like this but that's what it is for one who's been on the lower steps of the hierarchy - learns and adapts. Also it's just bloody unnecessary competition and distractions that TRP itself advises against.

You already have gone to 'nearly' 2nd base with the thigh grab it's bang time. Thing is at the house her ASD MAY kick in hard.

If this is ur best option of scoring her at the moment then maybe another commenter can chime in

Title	Escalating in this situation
Author	bruiser18
Upvotes	2
Comments	26
Date	October 23, 2018 2:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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