I’ve been gaming a girl I used to know through a friend for a couple of months. She lives a few hours away from me so meeting up has been an issue. We’ve finally found a weekend where we are both free and I’m happy for her to come over.

She’s driving to mine and will stay two nights. She knows that I live alone in a one bedroom flat. It’s obvious to me what she’s coming for, is it obvious to her?

The times that we have chatted has been flirty and funny and I’m trying to keep it cool. Just don’t want to fuck it up when she gets here. Any advice? How do I escalate in this situation?