I just noticed that I subconsciously do the following when I talk to girls: I alter my posture or literally lower myself to be closer to their elevation. I'm not basketball player tall but I'm above 6'. I don't do this with guys so I know it has something to do with women, especially the shorter ones who are SMV 7+. I also only do this when I'm sober. At parties or at the club this isn't an issue.

Example 1: A hot girl came up to me to say hi in the library and I was standing near my desk and when she came over I sat down to talk to her (she was standing).

Example 2: A girl came up to me in the gym to say hi and I popped into a slav squat position to talk to her.

Example 3: I was standing in the break room at work and when a hot coworker came to talk to me I leaned against the wall when she asked me how my weekend went.

My theory is it comes from me not wanting to intimidate them, or not having the confidence to physically assert myself over them. Or perhaps I'm trying to show them I'm comfortable talking to them by adopting a more comfortable or supported posture.

My assessment accurate? Any other explanations? How can I fix this?