Feedback on Tinder exchange

Auphor_Phaksache · 2017-01-26T10:55:24+00:00

You failed a comfort test that she never gave you. There wasn't enough of an emotional investment for her to stick around knowing you cheat. 15 minutes is no time at all. I'm sure someone could do it faster, but it took me a month for a girl to agree verbally to be a side to my LTR (from the point of matching till agreement)

You're going to ask what should you have said. I would (not everyone just me) have just acknowledged what she said and continued the conversation. Her mentioning her boyfriend is just a way to give her an out if she decided she doesn't like you, and was also her telling you that once she gave you her number you would have to be discreet. You picked up on none of that and basically said "I'll fuck whoever"

1NV0K3R · 2017-01-26T13:25:32+00:00

What you wanted: To fuck.

What she wanted: Validation.

Guess who got what?

PS. Welcome to Tinder, where game is made up and the SMV doesn't matter.

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2017-01-26T12:11:50+00:00

You did nothing wrong. She wasn't available. That's it. Why, doesn't matter.

Tough_Luv · 2017-01-26T14:22:07+00:00

I'd go more with "you say that likes it's an accomplishment (laughing face emoji)"

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2017-01-26T15:06:29+00:00

You didn't give a bad answer, but like Auphor said, it could have been a different, less risky one.

You did nothing wrong

RichieFinn · 2017-01-26T11:41:09+00:00

why the fuck do you care enough to post this? she unmatched you, leave it.

Title	Feedback on Tinder exchange
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	14
Date	January 26, 2017 10:44 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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