Met this really sweet girl in college, she's really special. I know there are no unicorns, and I won't dismiss the fact she may divorce rape me or cheat, but so far, no red flags. She is thoughtful and kind to me, cleans the house, close to her family, and just generally a nice person overall.

However she just doesn't interest me on an intellectual level... she's not ambitious and is really naive. She is pretty enough around a 6/7 but with makeup (which she rarely puts on) and some exercise she can be an 7/8. I will make enough to support both of us (currently in medical school) and she wants to be a SAHM and raise our future kids, which I agree since she really likes kids (so do I) and have pretty much raised her 4 younger siblings.

I feel myself getting restless sometimes and I know my SMV will get even higher once I've established my career (men age like fine wine...) but I haven't cheated and don't on planning to. I've only had 1 serious relationship before her and only a few FWBs, so I'm definitely not experienced by any means.

Is this a grass is greener syndrome? I'm in my late mid twenties and she's 4 years younger.