My girlfriend has been distant. I had a very beta episode, lost my frame, let my emotions eat at me and I accused her of a lot. I can’t tell if she’s just being distant to try and make me want her, which she has done before, or if she’s trying to talk to other guys.

She has told me before that if she really wanted someone else it wouldn’t be hard for her to do that and that if she wanted someone she’d get them. She has confidence. After this episode of insulting her, I told her she was right and that I was wrong. I’ve been depressed and she told me to stop feeling sorry for myself. After conversing via text I’ve texted her goodnight the past two nights and she hasn’t responded, but today she hit me with a “Goodmorning handsome.” Text. Felt great.

I waited three hours to text her. This is how it went:

Me: hey

Her: how’re you?

Me: exhausted. Hbu?

Her: I’m good, at the bank now then going to meet my friend and her dad.

Me: cool. Call me later.

Her: I can call you after the bank if you want?

Me; yea

Her: okay

It’s been over two hours. What’s my next plan of action? Do I ghost her for days? I want to keep her, I am in love with her, but I want her to want me again like she did before this.

Please help.