I have to be honest it's been a while since I started going out with women, my first date after 3 years of absence was last November, and I managed to lay on the second date, that gave me confidence but sure the results were not what I expected.

I asked this girl from Uni to hang out with me and although I believe I didn't manage to polarize her soon enough I was thinking of canceling because I thought she had friendzoned me., because I knew her for some time and even thought I didn't orbit her I never showed sexual intent before.

Then I decided to go out with her and use this as a learning experience. And even though I didnt manage to even kiss her I feel very confident for the future because I got to try different things I've been reading.

So we had arranged meeting at 10pm and I was already out for drinks with my buddies when she texts me to push it back for an hour.

I agree and we meet at a local bar for drinks. I picked a spot with a sofa so we could sit close together and practice my kino.

She seemed comfortable with my touch but she didnt reciprocate. I had my arm behind her and I was playing with her hair and at some point I was resting my hand or her thigh for a while. She seemed to be having fun and we were laughing alot, then we got into deeper conversations.

At that point I attempted to break rapport, but she kept talking. We hang out for almost two hours, sitting close to each other but at some point she turned towards me with her thights on the sofa and that increase our distance slightly, and I just couldn't find a way or IOI to got for a kiss.

I then stopped thinking about it and I just said am going to have fun and whatever happens.

I tried playing the questions game, where you get to pass on any question but we made a bet that whoever folded 5 times would have to buy the other a beer.

So I started light and then moved to more sexual questions that she seemed to answer and never folded, and she asked with how many women I've been with, that caught me of and I just honestly said 7.

At some point she made a question and we started talking about other stuff and we drifted away from the game. Then I just didn't get back to it and we just had fun conversation.

All the while I was either resting my arm on her lap or having it over her back brushing her hair.

When we left she picks up the phone and calls her buddies that were hanging out at her friend's house and she asked to go meet them. We walked towards my appatment, I kissed her on the cheek and she said see you in Uni after holidays.

Now I don't know if she was asserting her self but she genuinely seemed to enjoy her time with me, and I did too, she is in a LDR but she never mentioned her BF or anything although she did pick up her phone amd sent a few texts at some point.

I just didn't feel she was attracted to me sexualy, she seemed comfortable touching me and me touching her. So I don't know if I should bother with her when I come back from holidays in two weeks, but I at least want to take everything I can from this experience to improve when going out with other girls.

So if you had the time to read this thanks, what do you think I should do differently and do you think I should contact her again or is she simply friendly with me. She does have lots of guy friends i general.