First date at my place

abdada · 2017-01-24T22:21:47+00:00

First dates for me were 10-20 minutes over coffee during the day right after I met them for the first time. Vets their interest.

First private date was always at my place. Always. If they have cold feet, it's low interest or they have baggage I don't want to deal with.

Seriously don't sweat it. Are you Gaming other women? Invite them over. Always have a backup. If you don't have a backup, work on those first.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-01-24T23:22:14+00:00

First date at a bar getting drinks. Don't listen to abdada, he doesn't like bars.

TeflonDon3000 · 2017-01-25T05:28:27+00:00

A first meeting at your place? Idk that's a lot to put forward, on both ends.

I don't trust most women, having her just come into your space should be earned, not tossed at her so easily. Id recommend an easy coffee date, then transfer the date to your place for food.

That's my strategy, and it's rarely failed.

Often times, I'll get the whole "I'm not coming over" shit test. I deflect by telling her to come with me to the store so I can buy food to cook for myself.

This 3 point venue change is excellent to get past ASD. Coffee -> Grocery Store -> Home

Also it leaves 2 distinct outs for me. If the coffee is enough for me to get annoyed, I end it there. If by the grocery store I'm not feeling it, I'll leave it there. Having 2 exit strategies is important for meeting anybody new.

RPthrowaway_007 · 2017-01-25T00:41:59+00:00

Next, if she was really into you she'd make time.

Title	First date at my place
Author	redpillthrow50
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	January 24, 2017 10:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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