First date curveball question

TheStumblingWolf · 2017-02-10T20:03:55+00:00

One of the things I've learned after finding the pill is that you should not be afraid to express your wishes. Trying to maneuver this situation, as if you were playing chess, is as beta as it gets. You know what you want. No reason to add a layer of bullshit to fuck things up. If you want her for yourself say that. If you want to change venue say that. Say what you want and if she likes you she will follow your lead, or at least try to find a mutually beneficial arrangement. If she isn't cooperative she's wasting your time anyway.

abdada · 2017-02-10T19:54:02+00:00

How have you been "working on her"?

Group dates are a no-go. Searchbar for group dates.

FreshTits · 2017-02-10T20:02:11+00:00

Relax already and just enjoy the date you act like y'all are in a relationship.

Poptart318 · 2017-02-10T20:16:19+00:00

Say this "nah I'll pass. Next time than"
If she really wants to see you than she'll say "okay I'll just come alone

FunkDaddy011 · 2017-02-10T20:49:31+00:00

UPDATE:

I went with "Im sure your friends are cool, but I'm not interested in hanging out with them tonight. Meet me at venue instead"

Her response: Lol ok...well I know you wanted to try that place, so I'll let you know if they end up going somewhere else

I had mentioned in my intial time and place text that this was a new place I wanted to try.

Thoughts on her response?

GeorgeWallace68 · 2017-02-10T23:47:09+00:00

Hard next

Title	First date curveball question
Author	FunkDaddy011
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	February 10, 2017 7:51 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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