First date tips?

noFunnyLoginsLeft · 2016-06-23T08:20:48+00:00

First rule of dating is: have lots of fun. I can't stress out how important this is, if she feels for even a second you're not having fun, she'll stop having fun.

Try doing something fun on a date. Maybe find a pub that's hosting a quiz evening? Do something that'll raise her endorphins and adrenaline, she'll subconciously connect that with you. But I don't know her, so I can't tell you what she'd like.

Don't give sexual intention, build sexual intention in her instead and only then start escalating. As PUAs would say, build lots of rapport and moderate amounts of comfort. She needs tingles, not safety. And go for kino ASAP. Start escalating, but not from "what coffee you want" to "ayy gurl lets fuqq".

ex_addict_bro · 2016-06-23T08:48:30+00:00

My plan is to get coffee first

good

and then go to a nice pub, get tipsy

good

and take her home.

IDK, that would perhaps trigger ASD.

If I would really aim for fucking on the first date (I don't, this is not funny and the woman you usually get this way are shitty quality, single mothers and stuff), I'd use my car. Well, actually I took a woman to my place few weeks ago and fucked her, on the first date, but I would not recommend that.

Should I give sexual intention right from the start\

And do you have it? Are you sexually interested in that young woman? Are you really feeling desire for her?

Maybe you just want to talk? Maybe you just want to meet and see how it goes?

I seldom meet a girl that I know I would fuck hard right away. Recently I asked a girl out, nothing special, told her I'm not interested, we did not see each other for a few weeks, then we meet again and she looks hot AF and I'm ready to bang her.

Just listen to your intuition, to your instincts. There are billions of years of evolutionary experience behind you. Give them a chance to help you.

RedditAdminsSuck_88 · 2016-06-23T13:34:20+00:00

I added her on facebook and asked her if she wanted to get coffee

You have already lost this one dude. Grow a set and ask her out in person and get her phone number. The fact that you had no balls at all, had to add her on Facebook instead of getting her number, and asked her out over Facebook instead of in person means that she may have said "Yes" but I am almost certain she just sees this as a casual, platonic meetup instead of a "date" like you see it.

Trust me, this is how she views this. You will not be rewarded with sex on this one, she already has you pegged as beta.

Title	First date tips?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	June 23, 2016 7:53 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/4pfm3j/first_date_tips/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/first-date-tips.185046 https://theredarchive.com/post/185046

Comments