Hey guys, long time lurker here.

Have plans with a girl where shes gonna be joining me on my night out.

She told my friend about the plans (hes not coming), and told him its strictly "just friends" to him, but not to me. (Possible ASD?) She's been all over me latley as I've just been using push/pull tactics. Physically touching me in sexual areas, but I usually don't give her the time of day since I don't want to validate her and were in class.

This shit always is a boner killer for me. So im wondering if I should just IDGAF and go and have fun, lead and escalate. (Listen to actions not words).

Or flake on her

Opionions?