I posted awhile back about a girl that I liked from a class I was taking and how she rejected me, then wanted to hang out. I decided to try again, and despite just having been in a relationship, just 2 months later she was already in another. I feel like I dodged a bullet but I still have to see her, and I still want her for some reason.

Regardless, this week, I said fuck it. I talked to everyone, guys, girls whatever, while delivering mail out on campus. I got 3 numbers and was able to setup dates with all three.

Wednesday Night - Date #1.

I got her number last Friday and setup something for Wednesday Night. She was a little heavier than she looked sitting behind a desk, but it was whatever. She ran late, so I chilled at the bar, and had a couple of beers. She shows up, and we have a couple more before moving down to the bowling alley. There I initiated kino, all over, before K-closing during our game. We sat on the couch for a bit finishing our drinks, and she said she hadn't had a date in a really long time and that she had a lot of fun. I walked her back to the car, and she wanted to meetup again because she wanted to see if I would fuck her without drinking. I would say that I can't think of anything I did wrong on this date, but regardless when I went to setup a date for tonight, she simply responded back with "no". I have no idea what I did wrong here, but obviously something didn't happen.

Thursday Morning - Date #2

I met this girl on Wednesday Afternoon. She was extremely friendly and was definitely showing interest. I tried to set something up for Sunday but she was busy with church stuff and couldn't do it, but offered to get coffee on Thursday. So I did, we talked for 30 minutes before I went to work, and had a good time, and she was down to meetup again. I gave her a hug, I didn't feel any opportunity to kiss her, and she really gave off the "I'm a virgin vibe", having been with a couple of virgins in the past, I know this vibe. I don't know if she is worth pursuing. The problem is our schedules don't mesh, so I'm not sure if I'll actually be able to get a night date with her until classes start in a couple of weeks.

Thursday Night - Date #3

This one was pretty easy. I knew her from high school, and we always had some sexual tension. Within 5 minutes of seeing her, she had already kissed me, and within 10 minutes she was naked in my bed. Nothing really else to explain here. The problem, and there is a massive problem, she is a single mom, which I didn't know until after having sex with her and she started showing me pictures of her kid.....ugh.

What I could have done different?

Date 1 - I really came out of that date with a good vibe. We had some common interests, and some differences, she was receptive to all of my advances. I've gone back through the night, and the only thing I can think of is that I failed a shit test by not fucking her that night. I really don't know.

Date 2 - Obviously the circumstances weren't the most ideal. She was a really sweet girl and maybe I could have gotten more out of the deal. I don't know whether to setup another morning/afternoon date or just wait until school starts to setup a night date.

Date 3 - Single Moms make it hard, but as long as she doesn't start shoving her kid into my life, I will probably keep fucking her. I will tread lightly with this one.

The massive issue I'm having is despite fucking a girl, and having a couple of good dates is that I'm still hung up on the original girl because I see her all the damn time unfortunately. So basically I'm just looking for advice and feedback on everything that happened in the last couple of days and to how proceed with each of them.

Thanks.