Hello, long time lurker. I've been reading and applying everything I've learned here but I'm in a strange situation. I don't know how I should go about handling it.

Backstory: Met this girl downtown a while back. We've been banging for a while. becomes a regular plate. Anyways she ends up moving in with two of my friends (males) to a 3 room apartment. Said plate meets up with me downtown, grab a couple drinks, and end up at my place. We start making out in the bed and I'm met by some last second resistance to escalate which I was surprised by...

Her excuse: She mentioned how she's now rooming with my good friends and how she doesn't want things to get awkward.

Some more information: A. My friends never told me they were going to room with said plate in a apartment. I feel like they put me in a weird situation behind my back. Plate now wants to call things off.

Ultimately after assessing the situation I believe: My friends are still good guys. However, I feel like they unintentionally put me in a awkward situation by rooming with one of my plates. When ever I hangout at their place, if I do, she can also potentially be there.

I need some insight from people that have hopefully been in a similar situation because as of right now I feel disrespected & betrayed by my friends. I need guidance on how to go about this situation. Heres my two questions. 1. Should I tolerate my friends going behind my back and suddenly rooming with a plate who now wants to call things off considering the living situation? 2. Should I drop this plate and keep my friends, drop both, or just be friends with all of them?