I'm a late thirties single father. I had been going through a few plates looking for an LTR really to help with kids and chores and things like that. Met this super submissive girl and I have been very dominant with her and holding frame very well. She is pretty much willing to do anything in bed , but said she has never swallowed. I told her that's what I want and she said she will try eventually.

I'm wondering though, if I'm doing everything right and holding frame, is she supposed to pretty much want to do that automatically, or does it still just depend on the girl?