I have been flirting back and forth with this girl since the beginning of this semester. She keeps sending me selfies for validation or keeps asking me for help in exams. I have been using push and pull. I am nice to her sometimes but sometimes totally ignore her requests for help with studies.

Last week I tried to escalate things and asked her to meet me outside class during the break and then went in for the kiss. She kinda got scared that someone would see us and ran away. I just laughed it off. After the class ended she asked me if I had a gum? Lol? We hung out for a few minutes, I felt like nothing was going to happen because she had that why did I do that kind of look ? so I kept my cool and made fun of her.

Next morning she texts me if I want to talk. This is where I think I broke the frame? I told her she is confused about her feelings and I don't want to talk over text. I told her I'm gonna be at the library and she can come talk to me if she wants.

She replied that she isn't confused and always thought of me as a friend? Wtf? She said she can't come but she'll call me.

I wasn't getting what I want so when she called me I ignored it. Afterwards She kept sending me selfies and random boring bullshit like nothing had happened.

For next two weeks I'm gonna see her, what should I do? Keep my cool and make fun of her and try escalating again? Or completely ignore her ? Or confront her directly and say that I won't tolerate disrespect. Either you accept me as your boyfriend or lose me forever? What should I do ?