Fucked up and got oneitis with a chick who eventually pushed me away after a few weeks of fucking/dating. I’ve literally never felt this way and it pisses me off how much leverage she is able to have over my emotions.

I’ve accepted i need to just cut her off and she can either make a move and talk to me, or else we will never talk again. But the problem is I see her everywhere which rips me apart.

She lives around the block from me, goes to the same gym around the same time as me, and always ends up at the same bar as me.

I made it a point to ignore her at the bar and even a small pregame we both ended up at together despite obviously knowing she was there. However, Whenever I’m drunk at the bar and I see her talking to another guy, I get extremely angry / upset to the point I want to fight someone or message her.

Anyone experience this? What do I do when I see her at a bar / run into? How do I get over seeing her with other guys especially when intoxicated?