I had a fair share of success with women in college mainly due to being involved in many social activities and partying mostly every weekend. Having since graduated and moved away I've realized that meeting women isn't quite as easy as it used to be however.

I fully realize that post-college life provides much better opportunities for career, money, hobbies etc., but I can't shake the feeling that somehow my sex life peaked in college. It mainly manifests as a self-limiting belief: "I only got laid in college because I was popular. Now I'm just an average nobody. Why should any girl want me now?"

It's severely holding me back from actively pursuing women. Apart from the "brute force" approach of doing everything in my power to raise my SMV (including, of course, lifting) and approaching as much as possible, what else can I do to get over this mindset? Any advice?