be dude. find a girl and hit it off great during second year of college. about a year in we discussed past relationships and she remembered a time she got slutty during frosh week and some random dude gave her an amazing time when he went down. says it was the most intense time.

then a year and a half pass. we have great sex all around. lets me do anything, is great and we have some intense orgasms throughout. and during another past discussion, the talk comes up again after i told her how i had sex with a girl 10 years senior of me (we are 22) she mentions that guy again and how he made her feel great that one time and how she thinks it was the most intense time she ever had. then she brings up how i care more about just sex and barely go down on her, and she never voiced that concern before.

it does bother me, but should it? she brought it up in a very unexpected way and this almost undermines me. and this is coming from a girl who gets soaking wet before i even get her panties off.

it also bothers me that she felt so vulnerable after bringing up the topic herself that she felt like she needed to retaliate. and i find it an issue.