Hi everyone,

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So I found myself in very interesting situation in my relationship, this last days. I met this girl 2 years ago, she was after breakup at this time and she didn't want new relationship which I fully uderstood, we were friends and we started to spend more and more time together, I started to fall in love with her, but she wasnt ready for new relationship...At that moment she was texting with her friend from Canada(they met in Slovakia in summer 2018), me and my girlfriend are from Slovakia so it is pretty far away, when we were just friends she told me few times that guy is texting her like crazy, but they were just friends...after almost 2 years, I finnaly tryied to kiss her because I felt we are more than friends and it worked out :) we were officialy in a relationship, but one time when we was together she got message - that guy from Canada texted her - I saw just lot of hearts in that message and she immidiately cleard that notification... I was like OK maybe it is just some shit and I didn't pay attention to it.... but it happend again few weeks later... so I checked her messages like fu*kin stalker (i feel bad about it), it was just qick check because she was in the next room, I scrolled just few messages, but if I understood their situation from the context - they have long distance relationship for 10 months already and I;m like third wheel here or something... I didn't tell her yet, this is new situation for me and I want to ask you for advice what should I do. I told her we need to talk, so tommorow I'm gonna tell her about it...I want to ask her some questions to make her tell me about it first... We are in this relationship for 2 months only, but I love her and I wouldnt like to end this because of him if she will tell me about it...and if she will end it with him...

What should I do? What should I ask her before I tell her that I saw their conversation?

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Thanks for any advice.