I read the 10x rule by Grant Cardone sometime ago and in it he said the best way to write out your goals was to write them as if they were already completed.

I have done this recently and it makes me feel somewhat uneasy because I don't want to 'brainwash' myself into thinking I've already done what I need to do. I was thinking a work around could be adding a line or two after each goal that includes what I could do today to move towards my larger goal.

Prior to this, I would write small goals that were more process- focused, i.e. "apply to 5 internships everyday", and now they are results-focused with larger horizons, "I have an excellent internship in the city secured for this fall".

What do you all think? What works for you?

I'd especially like to hear from people who have set (or not set) goals with women and how that made them successful or not. Right now my goal is "approach two beautiful women everyday", but I'm not sure if focusing on results will take away abundance or be conducive to learning the skill (i.e. "fuck a new woman every week" could be achieved but if I'm just using the same game every week I'm not arguably learning a lot. RSD Tyler also advocates being process focused when it comes to game so idk.)