Backstory:

Using a burner for this one... LTR is bi and we’ve been together for a little more than a year, known each other for a little less 6. Last month we had our first threesome. She set the whole thing up, convinced me to do it when I was reluctant and even initiated in the bedroom. I got too drunk and payed more attention to the other girl and my LTR was crying nonstop for 2 weeks after it. I maintained it wasn’t a big deal for the two weeks, ignoring it and tryna Katana my way into her logic and calm her the f down. She was on repeat saying that she doesn’t want to share me and sex should be a special thing reserved for just the two of us, together. I said that sex between us is special, the threesome was fun cause we did it together and that I was sick of hearing about this and not to bring it up again. She’s been super affectionate and paying for everything (although she normally does) since I said to drop it and she hasn’t mentioned it since.

Looking back, I feel like I failed shit test after shit test cause I viewed them as comfort tests. Doubt there’s any 3-somes in our future if there’s a future at all.

Question: Anyhow, the point of this thread is that we used my phone to setup her tinder acc at the time of the threesome and out of the blue today I got a text from Tinder with a login code (account kit for Facebook). Now I’m confident she’s not setting up a surprise 3some and I’m genuinely dumbfounded atm that this bitch is likely tryna play me like this. I’d really like to learn from this, especially it happening so soon after her trying to domesticate me.

TLDR; Last month had 3some with 1 year LTR and paid more attention to the unicorn than her. Most likely failed shit tests I saw as comfort tests. Tried comforting her, failing and eventually told her not to mention it again. She’s been extra affectionate past month and today out of the blue I get a text from Tinder with a login code for the account we used (her account, my #) Looking for advice whether I should whip out the Hardest or nexts or ask her. I’m really after someone to explain the timing of it cause I’ve never felt her more dependent on me since we’ve been together. Thanks.