this may sound beta af but, I never compliment women when meeting them about their looks (or even knowing them good) cuz i dont want them to feel like they have the upper hand plus that leaves me out of looking thirsty. I do this thinking i would stand aside from others that give her the bs compliments daily but i doesnt seem to escalate. So basically, how do you hit on a chick without hitting on them if that makes sense? or do i need to compliment a bit?