Help me get more confidence

LucyDD69 · 2019-11-16T09:20:03+00:00

“I can’t lift because it’ll stunt my growth but I can and am.”

What in the fuck am I reading?

(edit) Idk where people get this stunted growth bullshit. If you can play football at 14, you can definitely start hitting the weights and be putting on mass. What, you’re afraid you’re going miss out on growing another foot? Fucks sake bro

wanker7171 · 2019-11-16T10:19:05+00:00

Damn thought yall would be more supportive than destructive lol thanks

Getting shit for being a dumbass is the best form of support you can ask for

Musicgoon · 2019-11-16T09:23:51+00:00

What have you done to improve yourself? Accomplishing things will give you confidence. As far as being a leader; no one is going to follow someone that isn't doing anything noteworthy. You're only 14. Foucus on school and health.

Lifting will not stunt your growth. Let me repeat that: Lifting will not stunt your growth. That's a bullshit excuse.

Make goals and accomplish them.

willieblackbean · 2019-11-16T09:33:45+00:00

Fuck off kid, youre already not a natural. Stay in school

notashittyperson69 · 2019-11-16T10:22:30+00:00

be more RP'd

lol.

bruiser18 · 2019-11-17T00:32:31+00:00

Ignore these assholes.

Bro you’re 14, just enjoy your childhood. Here is what I’d do:

Focus on your grades, social skills, and health/fitness. Don’t spend your time eating KFC and playing xbox. Get into a sport, bonus points for combat sports, and start some body weight training (push ups, pull ups etc). Practice conversation by just talking to everybody; cashiers, people at bus stops and such.

Don’t give a fuck about girls. You’re too young for relationships, I’m 18 and I’m too young.

Focus on school, play sports, get in shape, just be a cool and fun guy. By the time you’re 16 you’re going to be killing it. Focus on you.

You found the pill at 14, I found it at 16 and I’m killing it at 18. By the time you’re my age you’ll be unstoppable if you follow this advice. Don’t worry too much about anything other than what I said, for now. The rest will come.

Have fun, you have the road map to a good life, use it wisely you lucky bastard.

Title	Help me get more confidence
Author	Kllosha1
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	November 16, 2019 9:15 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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