Intro
Okay so I need some advice on this chick. Maybe I have autism or something. If you read this it might sound like I have onetitis on this chick, I do not, I am just trying to learn and improve my game. Been splinning plates all winter/spring. So please read this and tell me what you think about it.
I my experince HB5-7 chick are much harder to game and give in than HB8-10. I think that maybe some of the behaviors that I write about is just frame tests, she want to see how bad I want it or something. A beta would say it is mixed signals, there are not such thing as mixed signals.
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We are going kind of a full time course together, (I am full aware of do not shit where you eat.)
She is 19, I have been treating her like a bratty sister for most of the time, doing a lot of flirting, tried different techniques etc. She is propably a HB 6/7. First I only did it cuz it was fun and good practice. Everything she said I took playfully.
I am really short and she is the same height, but we are both fit. After like a week, she started to shit test my height, now it has been ongoing around 3-4 times a day every day. I shit test her too and use A&A. E.g. she sees a mini bottle of coke and says "look it is you."
We have an very intense gaze exchange multiply times a day. She have been with an classic alpha playboy for a short period before. She told me about it, it was like reading from TRM. She though he was a douche in the beginning, then he started to flirt, then she started to give in, she was then told he had a gf. She got really mad at him did not want anything to do with him, he then told her that he had left his gf, then she gave in all the way. Then she was told they where togheter. She then had a period of alpha widow. It was comical to listen too. TRP is so true.
Anyway she told me this when we where at the gym togheter. (Not a real date, but I asked if she wanted to join me at the gym and she always does. We live very close to each other. I started to think that I must be an beta orbiter now, cuz chick tell and cry about her alpha chads to the betas. But I do not see myself as a beta. I do whatever I want, pretty solid frame etc. Funny thing is, when she told me the story, she told me she went crying to guy x and z. So she clearly have her beta orbiters.
She have been texting to a guy at tinder, he seems like a regular beta. They texted for like 3 days. Then he just went offline, he haven't been online for like 7 days. She says this just makes her wanting to meet him more. I have been teasing her and joking about it the entire time, like she was my little sister. I have been reading the entire converstation, cuz I said the ship has sailed when he did not reply for 7 days and she gave me the convo to read, (however he have been offline for 7 days, so he havn't been talking to anyone.) He never asked her out, did not flirt, but surely a really nice and sweer nice guy ;). She says this is exactly what she wants, the opposite of the alpha chad.....
There is always some real chemistry between us, always, flirting etc. However, this alpha chad is her only one, at least what she told me. She have never been on a date or been asked out. I told her I do not believe it, she said it is true and got really really interested in why I though so. She tried to drag out of me the reason for why I thought so, I think so tried to get me to tell her I thought she was cute or something, I waved it away. Did not want to admit it and expose me.
During our week days we have 3 other guys around, 1 of them she uses as a real beta oribter. He does whatever she asks him for to do. She did this to me too and she tries sometimes, I never give in.
After one evening at the gym we went outside, I said it was beautiful weather, might go for a swim, she agreed with the weather, she said "so romatic weather" looked at me and just said "date" with a sexy gaze. I said something else about the weather and then said, I will go for a swim after this, you wanna come? She instantly said no. I droped her of and went swiming in the ocean.
During the last gym session, we had a little gathering at her place, after a while I sad I was going to go home and eat, she said you can have food here and she game me her some home cooked food. I was the only one who got any food, after that I said I was going to the gym, anyone wanna join. She said yes, she asked the betas to leave and we went to the gym. Now during the gym told me about the alpha chad. We got home, she said she wanted my help on a thing. I thought finaly! she invited me to her place. i helped her, then she started to remove her make up and we teasted a bit and talked. She then cooked a little pre workout meal. We ate, after an hour I left cuz I was bored nothing happend. I did not get signals from her that something could happend, escalation etc, note I am not very good at escalation etc.
We had an BBQ with all the other people, we got the assignment to fix a thing, I was touching a thing that was hot, and said it out loud, she then said flirty, "Did you say I was hot?"
A bit later we where talking about BBQ and cooking food, one thing led perfect to another and I said, "we should BBQ at my place, I make awesome x and y." She replied Immediately, can't only be us, we can invite "x" (x is one of her beta friends, one of my friends too.) I just waved it away.
Later at the dinner, she sat next to one of her beta oribiters, he picked up food etc to her when she asked etc. I sat 2 seats away. After a while a more alpha guy who sat next to the beta started to talk to her, after a while she got a soda for him, (she did not drank alcohol during the night, he did.) But when she was coming with the soda, she walked around the table so she came to my side, gently stroke my back with his soda, she did this one more time with a soda for herself.
After a while me and a guy was leaving, I asked if she and her beta guy wanted to come (we live close to each other) she said with a little bit of a smirkey face, thanks but I walk home.)
The day after we all would have a little gathering, I skiped it and did a soft next on her. I said something came up and left town early, which I did. She replied, "hope it is not something seriously." So I have no been doing the soft next for 2 days, we will see each other tomorrow. She have asked for when I am back. One of her betas have called me, have not replied.
So my thougth is to ask her out on a real date this week.
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