So whenever I want to approach and open a set,I subconsciously want to have success,that leads to me thinking in doing "a perfect game" and taking shit too seriously.

Two months ago I wasn't like this,but due to a dryspell (2 weeks) I have been through I have adopted this mindset,like the opposite I had (Whenever I saw a girl,I always saw them as funny things that throw you shit and you can laugh better to them thanks to that lol) but now I see them as more seriously type of people.

I also do other things apart from gaming and dating girls,I lift and have different goals which I work for,

Any advice on taking shit less seriously,DGAF attitude and dont going for the pull whenever I see a set?