so theres this girl I have been seeing, she's a plate but possibly ltr material.

I'm going to say first off I have only fucked her once although I say she's a plate because we are both into each other and we would fuck more but neither of us have our own place, she does but her family are staying with her due to a very close family member who is terminally ill and they were all aware that time was coming to an end. She had a free place one day in which I stayed over night. We would hang out most days and just go on long walks or get dinner, we would make out most times followed by heavy petting. So I call her a plate because we would be fucking more but its too complicated at the moment however I do like her.

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we would usually text and sometimes call when I was too busy to hang out.

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The relative passed and I didn't speak to her for a week, i let her know I was there as it was very difficult for her but other than that she never really spoke, just felt like I shouldn't interfere either. fast forward the end of last week and the funeral has just been. I message her and we talk a little then she suggests we do something today which didnt happen.

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She has just been very short with replies and says its because she's feeling sad, I ask what she wants to do and she doesnt really know but she doesnt want to be around people (like in our city at restaurants and stuff), then she sends me a snapchat (that she apparently sent to other people too, she didnt say that but its worded that way) asking if anyone wanted to come to a concert in another city with her this week... I said "how do you think you'll feel being around all those people?" to which she replied "dont have to be an ass about it" and I just replied with "why you being defensive it was a genuine question" she ignored me.

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What is this kind of behaviour, a few days ago she was talking about how we hadnt done anything in a while and she said we should do something at the weekend and now she's like this? I have notice though she usually takes things I say and makes it out as if I'm saying it to be a dick and stuff. She also talks about how hard the death has been and how sad she is, how she's just trying to cope and I usually just say " that sucks" I dont really give her so much sympathy