I have been trying to grasp TRP for months now and I don't feel any closer than when I first started reading all this content. A lot of the ideals and practices seem to be all over the place and not very succinct in their presentation. Just my opinion. Everyone learns differentl ways.

I was hoping to get an answer to a specific situation in my life to better learn what a red-piller would do. Background: been talking to this girl for awhile and been trying to set up dates but they've fallen through from both of our faults. Anyways, a week ago I asked her when we were going to make it happen. She responded with "tonight?!". I couldn't do that so I responded with "tonight's no bueno. Pick another day"

Is what I said part of TRP? This is the kind of thing I'm unsure of?

Anyways, she doesn't respond for 2 or 3 days. I text her asking about Friday or Saturday? I know this wasn't red pill, and regret giving in. So this is where things get fuzzy again. She texts me two days after very apologetic about how she's been busy with school and finals, saying she can't do Friday but will see if she's working or not on Saturday. Sounds good to me.

So she never gets back to me. I didn't text her begging for another day, or asking about what happened. As far as I'm concerned, I asked her out and she said she would check her schedule, I shouldn't have to keep asking her if its happening her not. She still has some tiny bit of responsibility to get back to me. Right? I don't know if I handled this the correct way or not. Please correct me if I didn't.

On another note. What do I say if she texts me apologizing? What do I say if she texts me just saying what's up? Knowing this chick I wouldn't be surprised by either.