I’ve been talking to this chick from school for about a month- known her for maybe 6- things start heating up and we were talking more explicit than I usually do with girls.

Then she pulls away for a couple days and seems like she’s really goin through somethin (from social media). Before this I knew she was spiritual or something cause she said that it’s sacred when people kiss.

But she hits me with the ‘Im sorry I’ve been acting different lately, I think I’m depressed. I said a lot of things I shouldn’t have. I think we’re movin too fast’

I guess I have a few questions-

she’s LTR material to me, should I try to make her feel better and maybe not press as much for a little and establish more comfort?

Not press at all and give her space? (probs not)

Or keep pressing and disregard her feelings if I think it will still work? (Seems a bit ammoral and I feel like I’d benefit from getting to personally know her more)

Like obviously I wanna turn her out with the bdsm stuff, but I don’t want her to feel like she’s going against her religion or ethics. She’s made herself stand out from other plates and she plays the game well so I want to pursue this.

I guess the last thing is you guys don’t think I’m already getting whipped do you? Since I wouldn’t walk away from this as easy?

If you read this far Godspeed to your endeavors 👌🏽

I just don’t want her feeling terrible about herself after we do somethin she wants to do. Like I get anti slut defense but she literally seemed depressed and placed all the blame on herself.

Would you only fuck her if you could? Or would you try to comfort her and take care of her mental too?

What we doin out here y’all?

Most I’ve contemplated over a girl in a long time, haven’t been impressed in a long time. Feelin the urge to want to do this right, but ik it’s cool if it doesn’t work 👌🏽