i'm seeing this girl who lives an hour away and because of logistics only i can come to her. some on here would never do this but personally i love long car rides so it's no problem. because of this, i'm constantly in her frame and i'm noticing she automatically has a lot of power here. there are many instances where she naturally has to take the lead. besides this, i'm picking up on things sub textually and feel as though i need to make some adjustments. i never want it to reach a point where she feels entitled or expecting that i make the trip. i do plan on making her come to me eventually but i'm not going to be irrational about the matter. how do bring her into my frame? what behaviors should i watch for over time?