Every now and then my family will say something along the lines of "why don't you have a girlfriend?" "Or I'm sure there's some girl that finds you attractive" or they will aggressively say " it's time you go find a girlfriend" I've even heard the " son you better not be gay " ( which really angers me). At family gatherings i hear similar things from other members of the family and it really frustrates and kills my self esteem because they say it likes it so easy to go out and find a girlfriend. I’ve even had my own brother bully me by telling me i can’t get girls because im ugly and will probably end up alone.

Sometimes i feel like lashing out at my family and telling them about The Red Pill, AF/BB, SMV/SMP, Hypergamy, AWALT even though i know the number #1 rule is to not talk about the Red Pill. It really angers me because they practically know nothing about the smp i even asked my mother (typical AWALT) what attracted her to my father and all she had to say was “ He was a very nice & respectful man” as if being nice created tingles which nonetheless proves women don’t even know.

The Honest Truth:

I know i am unsuccessful with women because i am a blue pill beta that has low SMV/no game. Looks wise i consider myself average but leaning more towards the ugly side i know TRP is a sexual strategy and not so much about how we look. However looks are also important in determining SMV. The problem isn’t so much for me about getting a girlfriend (because anyone can) the problem is i just can’t get a women that im physically attracted to. The typical “why do the girls i like not like me & the girls i don’t like, like me”

The Positives: as far as my personal life goes i consider myself MGTOW and focus solely on college, school, and hit the gym 3-4 times a week ive been going for 10 months now & lately I’ve lost another 12pounds and have put on a vast amount of muscle.

Anyhow its not like i can just tell my parents this. How do i approach this????