Background info: I'm 22m Chinese. The girl I matched with is a conservative Chinese girl, only had one boyfriend, doesn't drink alcohol. She's new on tinder, about to ride the tinder cc. We are pretty good friends.

So I matched with an irl friend on tinder (I was undercover, she didn't know who I was), we hit it off and she wanted to meet up for sex right at that moment. When I revealed who I was, she was shocked to find out it was me. She then played it off as if her friend sent the messages. Probably because she didn't want me to think of her as a slut, since she's seen as very innocent in real life.

Anyway I told her, look, the messages I sent to you, I was being serious. Then the LMR kicked in.

This is how the conversation went: Her: I have a cold though, is that okay? Me: No problem, I'll bring some cough drops Her: Both of our dorms have thin walls... Me: I'll hold you still Me: I'll be at your place in 20 Her: no no no, go to sleep OP Me: I want you Her: Sorry I'm going to bed

The next day we agreed to have a drink+talk next week.

Now obviously I failed the LMR being a needy little bitch. How do I act/proceed when we meet next week for drinks?

I believe there still is a chance to convert her to a fwb.