How do I bring value/ Increase my perceived value in a situation where it is low?

SubstantialBeanBoi · 2019-05-04T17:25:42+00:00

in a general sense. control the frame of the social environment. lead and control where the conversation goes and where social activity goes. you'll probably have to socially spar with other douchebags who feel unsettled by this imposition. your ability to do this indirectly communicates your succeeding in other facets of life without having to overtly demonstrate them ie girls etc

maverick9759 · 2019-05-04T20:03:48+00:00

Am an extremely analytical thinker. I pondered on the question of value for months, I just had to figure out what exactly is value and how to project it. Until I realized that the question itself is wrong. " How do I bring value to the table ? " Is wrong question. I was once reading some post by Rollo which described how little boys are natural alphas and I recalled what I was like as a kid. When I saw a toy I wanted, I just wanted it, I was not gonna behave well, do my homework and earn it, I just fuckin wanted it then and there. When I wanted to watch Make way for noddy on TV, " do your homework first and clean your room, then you can watch what you want. " Said my mom, as if I was gonna listen to her, it was like " it's either my way or the highway ( I'll throw tantrums and start throwing things around )

I had the frame of iron as a kid. I wanted what I fuckin wanted and I was gonna take it. Slowly we learn as adults that everything has a price, other people are important, you better not offend anyone just in case you need them later.

Of course you can't be as immature as a kid and throw tantrums but do try to get in touch with that rigidness inside you had as a child. That is, become your own mental point of origin. Approach that girl because YOU WANNA FUCK her, that the purpose, not to 'impress' or 'show value' .. the goal to bang her not show value, shift your focus. Paradoxically, it sends vibes which make you look assertive and dominant ( which you would naturally become if you become your MPO ) and makes chicks think what is the reason behind this assertiveness, and then they'll become spies trying to find your background, you won't have to tell them shit, plus it's more effective that way.

Title	How do I bring value/ Increase my perceived value in a situation where it is low?
Author	nbasports825
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Date	May 4, 2019 5:21 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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