SOME BACKGROUND

I'm a 21 y/o male living in a small City in Mexico, which lost his virginity just a year ago with his second ever girlfriend. I had my first girlfriend just before college (at age 18), which gave me my first kiss, and then I dumped to chase my oneitis of 2 years which left me on the friendzone 3 months later. I was devastated. Then I devoured PUA stuff and went biking for an hour every day. That gave me the confidence needed to get my second girlfriend by just talking to her at the bus, ask for her Facebook (I didn't had a phone back then) and texting for a while. She asked me to be her boyfriend and I said yes because "Why not?". 1 month after meeting her for the first time I was already fucking her, which was insanely fast for me back then. "After 19 years of Virginity, I got sex this fast? No way". The boost in confidence also made me more attractive. Girls would laugh at my jokes and be receptive to meeting me again. A girl invited me to events every now and then and then shit-tested me saying "If someone tells her about this, she's going to get mad, doesn't she?". But I didn't care. I was living the dream... And then I fucked up by staying with her instead of trusting my gut. There was a voice inside of me telling me "dude, you gotta see the other chances" but then another voice said "Nope, you're going to lose sex availability". So I stayed that way for almost a year until I decided to break up with her, then I went a month single, then I started a 20 day relationship with her again until she disrespected me and cut her for good... Until like 6 months ago, when some classmates sent texts to girls of my past telling them that i missed them. Only my ex replied. I denied that at first, but in reality I missed the sex (I didn't have sex with anyone in that 6 month period between the relationship and that moment). So I said "Don't you miss the wild sex we had?", And she said yes, so we are fuck buddies since that moment. (Obviously there was more to that story but this is long already, so I'm going to the point). All of this was before discovering the red pill. Now I'm starting to include good habits into my life, like lifting, reading, meditating, etc. I also became more social, I go to every event I get invited if it doesn't break my schedule and I work part-time at a bar as a waiter at Fridays and Saturdays. I still struggle with time management, because of procrastinating habits and some other shit that happens in my mind, though, but overall I feel better.

THE ISSUE

The point is, I haven't had sex with anyone except my ex-girlfriend/fuckbuddy, and I cannot feel the confidence to cold-approach anymore like I did with my ex (which really wasn't a cold approach because she indirectly approached me). And it's a dire situation, because I want to plate spin girls... And you know what they say: "If you're spinning just one plate, you are not spinning plates". The worst part is: I know a lot of women, and invite them to dates. All of them flake. ALL OF THEM. So I need to meet new, non-flaky women. The question is: how do I find them? I fell like it was a piece of cake before, and I didn't do anything about it because I had a girl. Now that I want to test the Red Pill theory, there's no one there. And when there's someone, like for example at the gym, I can't find the balls to cold approach them. I can only say hi, and nothing else. Some girls at the bar even ask me for my number, but when I text them: Radio silence, even though the night before they were really receptive.

How do I get my second, third, fourth, etc... Plate?