How do I get past this?

cblanco · 2018-12-09T10:45:35+00:00

If a genie appeared and said "cblanco go and hit on that hot blonde HB9 over there as best as you can and ask for her number, you have 2 weeks from this moment on to bang her. If you succeed I will give you $1,000,000. You would attempt your best and wouldn't give a fuck even if there were chads around her, you would approach so quickly and carelessly that you wouldn't care if there was a risk of getting knocked out etc. You approach to approaching her would be so quick and given so little thought because there's a million $ on the line, you would be retarded to not at least try right?

Now do this and pretend the genie is real.

fghvdfujvfdhkjbffg · 2018-12-09T12:00:16+00:00

Leaving that place is your best option. I'm glad your name is cleared. Focus on making more buddies and connections for your career in the future. Play it safe til graduation then do well elsewhere

spider_1337 · 2018-12-09T12:15:34+00:00

Best you can do im improve smv and let the women in your life just fall in to place while you regain your confidence again. Im not saying you should become an incel but rather improve yourself so much to the point where you become cocky and realize that any girl who gets the pleasure of having your attention is special indeed and not the other way around

JustChopItOff · 2018-12-09T16:13:27+00:00

Only advice I can give is don't tell anyone because you need support. Go to straight male psychologist for that.

I had a woman try to blackmail me and ultimately used a threat of a false rape accusation. Because the blackmail was gradually escalating, I predicted she would use the false rape card so I recorded her.

I talked to the cops. Legally I was safe and they got her away from my home. But mentally I was fucked up. Never in a million years would I guess that would happen to me. So I told some friends.

Well, a woman in the friend group overheard and it must have spread because all the women linked to her treat me like crap now so I had to ditch that social group altogether.

Just keep it to yourself and seek therapy to process it. Do not share with civilians.

Title	How do I get past this?
Author	cblanco
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	December 9, 2018 10:18 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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