How do I pick myself up from here?

360_no_scope_upvote · 2019-03-25T02:36:03+00:00

You start now and drop the bull shit excuses. You start talking to everyone, introduce yourself to some good looking women. You network with people, be social. There is no waiting for the right time, you just do it. Find work in your field, align yourself to be congruent.

rnsbrum · 2019-03-25T02:42:28+00:00

Yes, right now it seems like you have higher priorities than women. Remember, men chase championships and women chase champions. Do not stress over not getting laid when you can't even pick yourself up.

Since your lease is going to end, I suggest you to find a roommate and cut your expenses to the max, then save that money. Learn to be financially responsible and how to make your money work for you ( Read Rich Dad Poor Dad, it will change the way you see money)

If you are SURE you are going to find a job in the area that your degree is in, then yes, go back to studying. If not, stay away from uni and the endless abyss of debt. Instead, pick up a trade! (Yes, I know... but it pays well and you will always be able to find work anywhere) Welding, mechanic, plumber, construction...

As for your business idea, try it. You've got nothing to lose. Give it your 100%, make it your purpose. By the way, women like men that have a purpose, that are focused on their mission. If you are taking care of your body, have reasonable social skills and you are not in a hungry state, they will naturally come in to your life.

If possible give us a bit more context. What is this business? You will provide a service or is it some entrepreneurial delusion? What is your degree in?

Also when it comes to video games/having fun I'd advise you to not stop it completely. I did this many times and all I managed to accomplish was to get burned out and tired of life. Give yourself a treat, that way you stay motivated. Your success will not be determined by how much you've suffered.

Title	How do I pick myself up from here?
Author	Difficult_Sentence
Upvotes	2
Comments	2
Date	March 25, 2019 2:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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