Good morning Redpillers,

First, I would like to thank you all for your inquires which lead to valuable and insightful answers.

Last week, I held a small party for friends to celebrate my birthday. My friends and I invited a bunch of friends. The turnout was nice, I received a lot of love, etc etc. However, I invited one friend which I'm interested in - we'll call her Sarah. At first, Sarah said should could not go due to prior responsibilities, and she would most likely be too tired to get to the party. I was cool with and told her that if she had a change of heart, to shoot me a text. At about 10 pm, she texts saying that she indeed was going to make it to the party. I gave the directions, she got there and we immediately started hitting it off, danced a song or two. Sarah is no joke - she's a curvy, brown skin latina, with thick lips and a sexy accent. I talked to her for a little bit, but then went back mingling with the other guest - and she did too. I was receiving a lot of attention from various ladies that were at the party and I of course was flirting playfully with them. I would also talk and laugh with the fellas - all in part for the sake of being a good host.

Now Sarah was mingling as well. I didn't feel any type of way - but what did concern me was the lack of attention I was giving her. At the end of the night, around 3.30 am, a friend invited me smoke at a nearby house. I took the invitation and left, telling those that were at the house where the party was at that I would be back. It turns out that I didn't come back - I had a booty call pick me up and take me to her house (I was in no condition to drive in any case).

So my concern is this: Did me not giving her as much attention as I could have, leaving without saying goodbye and flirting with other ladies at the party hurt my chances at escalating with Sarah? I sent her a text the next afternoon thanking her for coming, and inviting her to beach. She said she could not go because she had a tough week coming up and she has to catch up with studying. When I arrived, I sent her a picture of the beach with a caption that read, "Greeting from the beach, study hard Sarah". She responded with a laugh and sent me a picture of a laundry mat she was washing clothes in. An hour later I responded with a picture of dinner I had bought at a seaside restaurant with a caption that read, "Very good, I like responsible people (in response to her being at the laundry matt). At least you're not in this bad situation". She hasn't texted back since then.

The reason I give all these details is because, besides my desire to bed this woman, is my to improve my game.

How do you recommend I proceed? (please excuse any grammatical errors)